I discovered your site back when I was pregnant with my oldest (he’s almost 6) and have been using and recommending it ever since.
We are expecting our third baby. I LOVE the name Wynn, and my husband likes Winston. We compromised and will use Winston but call him Wynn. But here’s my question: Would it be too confusing to go from Winston to Wynn (spelling wise)? I like the spelling of both and don’t want to change the spelling of either. (Let’s just be honest: Wynnston, Wynston, Winnston, Winn, Wyn, and Win look stupid to me.) What do you think?
Thanks so much!
Thanks for writing and recommending our site! My gut reaction to your question is yes, I do think it would be too confusing to go from Winston as a given name to the Wynn spelling as a nickname, since that’s not the standard.
If you were asking me if you should use one or the other, I would choose Wynn first and foremost. I would avoid Winston for several reasons: 1) it is a popular brand of cigarette, 2) it’s a character (actually two) on the popular TV show New Girl. Although they’re good, kind, quirky characters, the name would be constantly associated with that. And 3) I see your surname from your email and Wynn has a better rhythm as a full first-last name combo than Winston.
Say it aloud in our introduction test: “Hello, my name is Winston C*****.” or “Hello, my name is Wynn C*****.” Which sounds the best to you?
Of course, in the end it’s your decision.